How do I go about divorcing my wife is she has abandoned us and married another man?

Question by meorfexman: How do I go about divorcing my wife is she has abandoned us and married another man? God this sounds like a white trash reality show. Okay, here goes. Twelve years ago my wife got into legal trouble, and vanished. Five months ago she reappears in Kentucky married to another man. I had tried to divorce her in PA but because I was former military I had to have her signature on one paper. I could have waited 2 years without filing and then divorced under the abandonment clause but I did not and so was stuck in that loop. Anyway, flash forward ten years, and I am now living in Oklahoma. She pops up out of no where to be part of our sons life again though she is living in Kentucky. All I have for her is a phone number. Turns out she is married to another man. I recently have met a wonderful young woman from Asia that I wish to marry but I have to show proof of divorce from my ex. I asked her if she had such proof since she has remarried and she does not. So I asked her if she would sign divorce papers, and she refuses to do that. She does not want anything money or visitation wise she is just refusing to be spiteful; to prevent me from remarrying. So, I just need to know from some one that does know how do I go about getting her out of my life? I have asked an attorney, and they say it can be done for an ungodly amount of money but I do not feel as if that is fair. I mean, she is already married, and we have not seen her in 12 years. It should be automatic if you ask me. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Best answer:

Answer by Awiggins
I would recommend permanent surgical birth control for all involved parties before any further gene pool contamination can take place

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