Q&A: Affair with a teen mom I met in an online forum. Should I leave my family for her?

Question by : Affair with a teen mom I met in an online forum. Should I leave my family for her? I go on a parenting forum a lot. I am in my early 40s, the father of 2, been married for 12 years, and a investment banker. My wife, 2 years older, is an attorney. Last year a girl was freeking out online after finding out she was pregnant and her parents abandoned her (she was 17). She didn't know who the father is. I answered her questions thoroughly and we had a back and forth on the forum. Eventually we exchanged email. I would check up on her to make sure she's ok. We started talking on the phone when I was at work and she went on cam for me a few times. I admit that I was already attracted to her when I saw her pics on her profile. Anyway I started sending her flowers every week and gifts and things started to turn sexual. I ended up stopping over in south carolina twice after going away on business trips without letting my wife know and I had sex with her while she was pregnant. I even gave her money. Then I secretly visited her in the hospital in January a day after she gave birth. I can't get her out of my mind. I even flew her in to Manhattan once on Valentine's day. I want a divorce and move her and her daughter in with me to New York but I don't want to hurt my family. Best answer:

Answer by James
Well you've already hurt your family enough, so telling them now would be better than leaving it in the dark.

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